Do you talk about Christ with Christians?
That seems like a funny question but think about it. Outside of church or bible study do you talk about Christ?
Some of us are really good about bringing up God when there are clearly opportunities to witness but many times we don’t utilize all the opportunities we are given. Here are two examples:
Recently I was at a collector’s show of western memorabilia. Among the dealers was a gentleman who didn’t just collect and sell but actually created the spurs and many accessories and jewelry items that he sold. As I was visiting with him about his products I noticed a couple items with crosses on them including a money clip. Now I don’t remember many of the details of our conversation because it was mostly one sided, that being mine. I mentioned the cross on a couple of the items and made some comments about being a Christian and what I did. I sent out a couple more “feelers” but nothing developed and I moved on. About a month later the individual contacted me via email about one of his products and in looking at his website I found scripture quoted on the site. Fellow Christian? I wouldn’t have known it based on our conversation and it was a weekend for me that would have given me a little nourishment when I needed it.
The next example was also related to collectibles as I had answered an ad on Craigslist and after arriving at terms we started to arrange a meeting for the viewing of the item and I said I couldn’t make it until a certain time because of church. This opened the opportunity for this individual to discuss with me his ministry.
With the first example I needed to be fed by what turned out to be a fellow Christian and wasn’t. With the second example I purposely used the opportunity to mention church though it really didn’t matter. I could have said I can’t be there until noon but I wanted to mention church to see if it led anywhere and it did. By going there I allowed a fellow Christian to discuss with passion the ministry that he provided others and I will do so again when I meet him. I can tell he needed it and it did me good as well.
Many of us as Christians need to exercise our indwelling with our brothers and sisters. We need to talk about what we are doing in our Christian work and how the Holy Spirit is active in our lives. Much of our time in church were we gather with other Christians is spent listening to sermons and other teachers. After that we mingle and talk about our golf game, our kids and our vacations. There isn’t enough of what most of us know of as koinonia. I like the Wikipedia definition as it says it is, “communion by intimate participation.” I am afraid most of us don’t get that where we worship.
What I would encourage is to mention church, bible study, God, Christ, being a Christian and so on whenever it makes sense. I think you will have more opportunities to witness to non-Christians and have more opportunities to encourage and be encouraged when you encounter fellow Christians.
We need this intimate participation and by being aware of that we can be a benefit to more outside the church but what about inside? If you are in a position to do so consider starting a group or groups that meet informally not to teach and listen but to share how the Holy Spirit is working in the lives of individuals from your church. If you can’t start it maybe you can be one to plant the seed.
It isn’t surprising when we feel empty when we are in the world but we sure shouldn’t feel that way after we leave church.
Blessings,
Jed